God, Grant Me Serenity – One Day at a Time

God, grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I can,
and the wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time,
enjoying one moment at a time;

Have you ever had a day where your schedule was so packed that you looked toward that day with a sense of dread? Have you ever woke up and felt a pit in your stomach and asked, “How in the world am I going to get everything I need to get done today, done?” Have you ever had the type of week where you said to yourself, “I can’t wait for Friday to get here!”

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God, Grant Me Serenity – Acceptance

“God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change…”

Change is uncomfortable. There are some changes that are exciting. On my wedding day, I knew that my life would never be the same. We took pictures before the wedding, and I stood on a wooden bridge at Sedgwick County Park. I was facing one direction, and my wife was going to come up behind me. The photographer would take pictures of the first look. I remember that moment very clearly. I felt butterflies. For the first time in a little over a year, I was nervous. I was back in the past, when I asked my wife out to coffee for the first time.

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Who Knows?

God has a plan.  Indeed He does, but can we know it?

There are moments in our lives which can achieve us “creeper” status. All it takes is misreading circumstances as “God’s will” when really it’s just happenstance.

This can be a pretty common behavior in our culture.  When it comes to dating, where we work, and where we live, we want to believe its a part of a big huge plan that God has for us.

The truth is, it is.  God does has a plan and purpose for our lives, but how can we know what that plan is?  Is there a secret behind who to date, where to work, and where we live?

If we want the answer, I think the first thing we have to do is throw the “signs” out the window.  The random occurances that culture encourages as “signs” are only going to make us crazy.

Our definition of “God’s will” also needs reworking.  In the story of Esther, Mordecai wants Esther to approach King Xerxes regarding a decree that Haman (one of the king’s right hand men) made to destroy the Jews.  We all like the bravery of Esther when she says, “I will meet with him, and if I perish, I perish,” but before that, Esther waivers.  She replies with a worry of her’s that comes to mind:

“All the king’s officials and the people of the royal provinces know that for any man or woman who approaches the king in the inner court without being summoned the king has but one law: that they be put to death unless the king extends the gold scepter to them and spares their lives. But thirty days have passed since I was called to go to the king.”  

Esther is scared because she knows that if she goes before the king unsummoned, there is a good likelihood that things will not go well for her.  She could very well go into the throne room and not walk about out.  Mordecai’s reply is this:

“Do not think that because you are in the king’s house you alone of all the Jews will escape. For if you remain silent at this time, relief and deliverance for the Jews will arise from another place, but you and your father’s family will perish. And who knows but that you have come to your royal position for such a time as this?”

Who knows?

Mordecai didn’t say to Esther, “This is why you are where you are. This is God’s purpose for you.”  He said, “Who knows?”

It turns out that it was God’s purpose to use Esther to save the Jews, but Esther moved when things weren’t certain.  The same is true for us.  We are called to move and act in a world of uncertainty.

Is it God’s will for your life to….  Who knows?  It could be.  It’s scary to think of living in uncertainty, but it can also be freeing.  We don’t have to pour every single choice through the filter of knowing the specifics of God’s will for us.  That isn’t trust, and that kind of fear can immobilize us.

Let’s let go of wanting to know all of the answers before we step out in faith.  Let’s grow into trust and walk away from wanting control.  If we do, we will find a sense of freedom and can still take confidence that Jesus will make us clean through our circumstances.